We live in a world where comparison has become part of almost everything. We are not only encouraged to succeed, but also expected to explain why we are better than others. We are supposed to articulate our uniqueness, stand out, and convince. This mindset often begins early and follows us from education into working life, entrepreneurship, and eventually even into the world of wellbeing.
Yet more and more often, I find myself pausing to reflect on what this kind of culture does to us as human beings. What kind of inner pressure does it create when simply existing does not feel like enough, but we always need to be a little more, a little better and preferably able to say it out loud. From this perspective, yoga teaching has been a powerful counterforce for me.
It has shown me another way of being in the world. One where value is not created through comparison, but through walking your own path with honesty.
The Question That Stopped Me
At one point, I was asked to explain what makes me a good teacher and better than others. The question stopped me completely for a moment. Not because I would not have known how to answer it before, but precisely because I once knew how to answer it very well.
My background is not only in the yoga world. I have studied and worked in environments where articulating your competence, justifying your value, and standing out from others were almost basic skills. I was expected to explain why I am the right person, why I am a stronger choice than someone else.
That is why I noticed the change in myself so clearly. I no longer wanted to participate in that. I did not feel the need to elevate myself above others or build my value through comparison. The question did not feel difficult because I could not answer it, but because it no longer felt true.
“Perhaps the more important question is not who is the best, but why we should be.”
A World Where Superiority Has Become the Norm
In today’s world, the culture of being better runs so deep that we do not always even notice it. We are described in terms of skills, achievements, efficiency, and competitiveness. It shows up in working life, education, social media, and even in how we talk about ourselves. In such an environment, it is easy to start believing that a person’s value is something that must be proven.
At the same time, many people grow tired. Not necessarily only from the amount of work, but from the constant inner tension of needing to be more. To express your value correctly. To convince others. To be interesting enough, credible enough, and preferably a little ahead of others.
Sometimes it feels as if we have built a world where a person is only allowed to exist after first proving they are good enough.
Why Does Yoga Teaching Look Different from the Outside?
Yoga teaching can sometimes raise questions, especially if someone has a long academic or professional background that is considered externally prestigious. People may look at a yoga teacher as if they had chosen something less serious or less intellectual as if it were not a suitable path for someone who could have done something else.
But perhaps this reveals a deeper issue in our time. We tend to value what looks efficient, ambitious, and measurable on the outside. A choice guided by the heart is harder to understand if it cannot be explained through the language of competition, success, or titles.
For me, becoming a yoga teacher has not been a step down or a break away from something more “serious.” It has been a step closer to myself. Closer to what genuinely feels right.
In Yoga, Competition Is Not the Core
At the heart of yoga is not the idea that only the strongest or most visible should remain. Quite the opposite. As yoga teachers, we hope there will be many of us. That more and more people will teach others how to breathe, pause, listen to themselves, and meet others with greater kindness.
From the perspective of yoga, the world does not become better because one person rises above others. The world becomes better when more people find a connection to themselves and through that, to others.
That is why I do not see yoga teaching as a field where one should compete for students or status. Students find the teacher they need at that moment. Teaching is not about possession, but about meeting.
Following Your Heart May Lead You in Another Direction
Not all choices look logical from the outside at least not in a world that evaluates things mainly through status, efficiency, or career progression. And yet, those choices can be the most honest ones.
For me, becoming a yoga teacher has been exactly that kind of choice. Not an escape from something, but a movement toward something more authentic. Toward a life where I can be more fully myself while doing work that feels meaningful.
When a person follows their own heart, their path does not always resemble the paths of others. Perhaps it is not meant to.
Perhaps the Most Important Thing Is Not to Be the Best
Perhaps it is more important to find your own place, to do what feels right, and to allow others to do the same. Perhaps the world would become gentler if we did not always ask who is the most, but instead asked more often what is true and what feels authentic.
For me, yoga teaching has taught exactly this. Not everything needs to be built on comparison. Sometimes it is enough to follow your own path and trust that it is enough.
“Authentic living is not built on comparison, but on trusting your own direction.”
— Minna, Wisdomyoga
This is such an important topic. I’ve personally noticed how deeply comparison can affect how we see ourselves. Often without even realizing it. What has helped me is learning to step back and reconnect with my own direction instead of constantly looking around.
Curious to hear how others experience this. Feel free to share your thoughts or reflections in the comments .